.Saturday, February 9, 2008 ' 8:14 PM
Turtles love Chipmunks
You know what, i thought the matter can rest. I thought i would not want to host this issue up to the blogging world, but it seems that someone thought i was being over-sensitive and so here i am claiming my stands. Especially when it is not my fault and some people are being patriotic and judgemental saying " there's a better way of discussing things and not telling her off." Well, makesure you dont tell me off in emails as well. I dont take that.
In the midst of collating CRM i happen to read upon a friend's blog about the misunderstanding and misinterpretation issue. Im not hurt in anyway, because i certainly feel that, in the midst of stressful projects, one must mind their sayings OR perhaps wiriting.The entry she typed was probably to state her thoughts. Seriously it doesnt matter. We always have a choice in life, to treat the fun way or the serious way. I know the stress of a leader. Well who doesnt know. and for fuck sakes's this isnt scarsm. As far as the truth is concern. I know what it feels to have workload up on you. Honestly, i know her, and her problems face. She usually tell me as well. The only thing was her email that disturbed me.
Of course im sensitive bout this issue because the CAPS and EXCLAMATION mark was on me. It wasnt on anyone else so apparently you dont feel the bite. To be honest its nothing about being against anyone here. Just try to be more sensitive towards one's feelings the next time round.
Anyway, we sorted out this issue. Well, if you still see it as my mistake, so be it.Because you're not the one facing this. Well, the people that are close to me should know.
"you never had feeling of what it is like to be in her shoes; what she needs to do..
she is doing this for the best..
please understand that."
Personally what has asking her to change the way she writes email so that it doesnt offend anyone got to do with me not understanding her ? Erm, hello, im truly aware what she does for the group. By all means this can go on, if you want to type another entry about this issue.
Bottomline: Words can break or make someone. Therefore, just make sure the next time round, history don't repeat itself. Oh and if this entry disturbed anyone, dont blame it on me, cause someone decide to talk about this entry first and the main purpose of this entry is just to claim my rights.
